
| The Denial Factor Living Truth Through Denial |
| using lies In order to avoid facts that they think may be potentially painful to themselves or others. Denial of responsibility: This form of denial involves avoiding personal responsibility by blaming, minimizing or justifying. Someone using denial of responsibility is usually attempting to avoid potential harm or pain by shifting attention away from themselves. Denial of impact involves a person avoiding thinking about or understanding the harms their behavior have caused to themselves or others. Denial of impact reduces or eliminates a sense of pain or harm from poor decisions. Denial of awareness: This type of denial is best discussed by looking at the concept of state dependent learning. This type of denial often overlaps with denial of responsibility. Denial of cycle: Many who use this type of denial will say things such as, "it just happened." Denial of cycle is where a person avoids looking at their decisions leading up to an event or does not consider their pattern of decision making and how harmful behavior is repeated. It can also serve as a way to blame or justify behavior (see above). Denial of denial: This can be a difficult concept for many people to identify in themselves, but is a major barrier to changing hurtful behaviors. |